Tuesday, May 31, 2011

I wa foolish how can i change there names?

Ok i was stupid enough to post my daughters names up on here and now all im recieving is negative comments my daughters are 3 years and 1 week old. Im devistated how can i change my 1 week old daughters name. There names are Alyvia and Darcey. I cant belive this im 22 and crying over my daughters names! I feel a horrible mother giving them these names.I wa foolish how can i change there names?
Just change the spellings. Olivia Peyton and Darcy Jane. They may not be mine or some other people's tastes but at least they would be spelled correctly which is a HUGE plus. Or, just leave it the wy it is. Just b/c I and some other people don't like it when names are spelled wrong doesn't mean you have to change your kid's names. I mean, yeah, my opinion remains the same but it's also true that I'd much rather see a name misspelled like Alyvia then see something totally trashy like Nevaeh or Destiny or something of that sort. And at least you didn't go totally overboard with the misspelling and go for Ahlyvehyia or something.I wa foolish how can i change there names?
oh my gosh! don't get upset! i posted on your previous question and i really do like those names! it is upto you what you call your children, no one else!



i really hope you don't alter their names, please don't
My suggestion: Leave the names how they are. You picked them %26amp; you obviously like them, so who cares what people on this message board say? I bounce ideas off people being due myself, but if I like a name the majority of people don't like, it will ultimately determine what I put on the birth certificate. Don't care over it...you have no idea who is on the other side of their computer, it could be a 10 yr old for all we know?



The names are pretty and I see no reason to change them.
What? Don't let people's negative comments make you feel stupid. People on here tend to be really harsh about baby names, especially the ones they don't like, and everyone and their mother have their own opinions.



Keep your daughters names. They're nice names, and you're not a horrible mother!
Don't change their names. It's too late, and it's only random strangers on the internet. But it's not too late for spelling changes.



Try

Alivia Peyton Reed

Darcey Jane Reed
who cares, as long as you like the names it doesn't matter.
They are your children and who cares what other people think.



Are they taking care of you or your kids?

Paying your bills?

Buying your groceries?

Buying diapers or formula?



Just give them a big F...U...



Your children will grow into beautiful people.

Remember most people say something negative before they say something positive.



Don't change their names because even if you do more then likely most people will never change their bad attitudes.



Good Luck.



And don't cry you have two beautiful children.
Your names are lovely!



Alyvia is a lovely way of spelling Olivia, not too kree8tiv as some people are lol and Darcey is pretty, there are a lot of people in my school with that name amd they don't get teased.



You are not a horrible mother, you were just trying to make nice names a little more unique and it worked so don't pay attention to other people on here, i receive negative feedback from other people on the names i post on here (just random names) but i ignore them x



If you still feel upset, as other people have suggested use ordinary or family middle names aka

Alyvia Charlotte or Alyvia Jane

Darcey Elizabeth or Darcey Anna



Hope this helped :)



Rhan x
If you love your daughter's names than that is all that matters. Everyone has an opinion and sometimes those opinions aren't given with very much kindness. If you've asked for opinions than you have to be strong enough to accept what people have to say even if you don't agree with them. Your baby is only 1 week old so your body is going through enormous hormonal changes. It's normal for you to feel weepy and sensitive to things. You may want to take a break from Yahoo! Answers for awhile and just spend all your time healing from childbirth, bonding with your baby, and focusing on taking care of yourself. There is nothing wrong with Alyvia and Darcey for your children's names. Why change what you love just because of some stranger's opinion? Also, don't change the spellings of your daughters' names just because some people don't like alternative spellings. You aren't charged with making everyone happy, you can only do what makes you happy. You are doing a fine job of being a mom so be confident in your choices.
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